This is one reason I celebrate the solstice, (though not in the form of any ritualistic tradition). It’s a touchstone to reality, and my expectation that the days will now start getting longer is always fulfilled. As for Christmas, I just try to focus on the spirit of giving and try to keep that generosity going throughout the year.
I agree that holidays can sometimes create unrealistic expectations. Ultimately, it’s up to us to celebrate in a way that feels right for us, free from any pressure.
This is one reason I celebrate the solstice, (though not in the form of any ritualistic tradition). It’s a touchstone to reality, and my expectation that the days will now start getting longer is always fulfilled. As for Christmas, I just try to focus on the spirit of giving and try to keep that generosity going throughout the year.
I agree that holidays can sometimes create unrealistic expectations. Ultimately, it’s up to us to celebrate in a way that feels right for us, free from any pressure.
Thanks so much for your wisdom. I hope people are taking your advice. I hope you are doing great.